Calling it a Day.
Its almost official, as of 2 weeks from now the Mr is having a permanent procedure to ensure that my overly fertile ovaries are never fertilized again.
We are finally calling it a day.
I’m a little sad – but mostly excited about closing that door of my life, and focus on raising our 3 healthy mostly well adjusted kids and not worrying about what could be.
I’m young but the reality is I don’t do pregnancy well at all, I hate it and ya know the last baby I had resulted in more the a few very scary moments (early induction, blacking out during labor due to extremely high blood pressure, postpartum hemorrhage resulting in surgery and almost hysterectomy). So yeah I’m 28 but I have 3 amazing kids and I’d rather quit while I’m ahead then risk not being there to see them flourish.
A few times when the conversation comes up and I tell people I don’t want more children, they look at me like I hate children — in particular my own. Totally not the case, I think its smart parenting knowing our limitations physically, emotionally, financially. But hey I will gladly love on your baby – and hand the child back after.
Kids are great, I’m just realistic about my situation.
SO tell me, Did you KNOW when you were done or did you just wing it?? (what will be will be??)